Relationship With God First

   You've been fighting with your best friend, family member or significant other. Maybe you feel the need to mend your relationship with someone who used to be a huge part of your life but who now, seems like a distant memory.
    I think most, if not all of us have been in this situation before. One thing you need to consider before trying to mend any relationship is to think to yourself. "How is my relationship with God?" I'm not here to lecture you on how if you have Jesus you wont have any of these problems because that's not true. John 16:33 says that you may be a Christian but you will face some trials. What I'm trying to get at is that before you fix anything you have to have that relationship with God first. Their are several reasons for this.

1) You have someone (God) to give you comfort.

2) If you can't fix a relationship with the one who holds your life in his hands how can you fix a relationship with someone on earth?

3) God can give you guidance on how to handle the situation.

4) God will be there when that person who you are having a tough time with is not.

  Their are much more reasons on why you should establish a relationship with God first but those are the ones that entered my mind first. To establish that relationship with God you can read the bible more, attend & become active in church, start a prayer journal, listen to christian/ inspirational music and soo much more!